MONDAY BLUES! For many people, the impact of Monday blues starts from Sundays evening itself. They keep checking mobile phones or clocks, between every half an hour, and have a deep breath — Convinced, they still have hours before going to bed. They want Sundays to not be ended. Some people may engage themselves in activities, what gives them instant dopamine hit, to hide them from the fact — The next six days will be an exhausting trap.
IMAGINE! You are all alone on Sunday, suffocating between four walls, you have your mobile phone as your one and only companion. You are frightened by the pending works, that are piled up like a mountain in your desk and your boss’s face also comes to your mind, often. In addition to that, your future fears join hands with them. Then, obviously — There is no need for a red carpet to welcome our Monday blues.
On the other hand, we can’t ignore its positive side, that, it is an opportunity to know ourselves even better. May be, it is a starting point to review ourself. It is a sign to change our working style or pattern, or, may be, it is the obvious time to find out the missing part in our career. Or, even more, possibly, it is a right indication to change our track or journey entirely. However, there is something, that needs to be analyzed and improved for our own happiness.
Happiness is the primary source of our living. When there is no happiness, there will be numerous Monday blues, Tuesday blues ….and so on. And, we all know, there is a huge difference between ‘Living’ and ‘Surviving’. Surviving, Could also be an indication of Monday blues. The changes we make today, decide whether we are living with happiness or just surviving.
Certainly, it is better to be late than never to bring that change, From Monday blues to the day of Hope, Joy and Support. Changes are inevitable. And, every change serves a purpose. Even though, you failed to notice every bit of changes and purpose around it, people never stopped to use every opportunity that knocks on their door to bring light in their house. Some people have not only lightened-up their lives, But also enhanced this world to a better place. And, right now, it is your time to contribute some changes for your own happiness.
To begin with, bringing small changes into our lives is not that harder. Even without much of realizations, we have made plenty of small changes already. From our morning routine itself, we switched the brands of our Toothbrushes, Pastes, Soaps from time to time. We altered our tastes and choices on Food, Dress and Entertainment too. Even, our aim has seen such varieties — we changed, updated from Doctor to Engineer to scientist and many more. Our Friends circle, Plans, Goals have been updated too.
Now, it is never too late to look back the journey we lived and the choices we made to know, what would be the continuity we missed so far to bring all the missing pieces together for our happiness?.
From Our childhood itself, we are systemized to become one ideal person, “Mr. Perfect” or “Ms. Perfect”. Meanwhile, In that process, we may even forget to know ‘What exactly we need?’ and ‘What exactly makes us happy?”. These questions are more personal and can be answered by oneself who desperately needs it.
When a person starts to search his/her answer to those questions. He or She will begin to search answers to much more questions like that— where is my freedom? Where is my missing part? What is the purpose of my existence? Who am I in this crowd? What satisfies my soul and hunger? what makes me complete? and many more. But, The answers lies within, who is in desperate need of it.
And, The answers could be anything —Your passion, Being yourself, Feeling Satisfied with your better version or many more. But, nobody can answer better than you for your personal questions. And, finally, it is never too late to find yourself, and your better version to say ”Mondays are not that bad”.
“WHEN YOU WANT SOMETHING, ALL THE UNIVERSE CONSPIRES IN HELPING YOU ACHIEVE IT”.
-PAULO COELHO